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不是爱受伤，是欲望受伤

这几天，白玫瑰小姐把个爱字在168炒个沸沸扬扬。更说爱是激情始，切齿终。其实多少人真正“爱”过？不过是“欲”罢了。很多人把自己的占有欲当成爱。满足不了时就说被伤害，被欺骗了。。。。。难道爱一个人就必须将他（她）占为己有？或让他（她）按着你的方式“成长”？要知道真爱=无私奉献。默默为你爱
作者：时间：2009年04月29日 15:47 查看全文

游客 IP:24.99.111.* 发布于 2009-04-30 01:20 7 楼^#

<P>其实真正的爱情，往往始于“欲”，也止于“欲”。你能说有多少男人的爱没有“欲”？没有了“欲”，爱也不会存在了，剩下的最多是“亲情”和“友情”。柏拉图式的爱是行不通的。没有荷尔蒙在作怪的爱不是爱情。</P>

游客 IP:76.97.166.* 发布于 2009-04-30 00:55 6 楼^#

<P>其实又有多少爱情不是欲多于爱呢？青春年少的我们爱的上天入地，死去活来，以为自己的爱情好伟大，好神圣，现在医学心理学发达了才弄明白那一多半都是荷尔蒙在作怪。切！</P>

游客 IP:24.99.111.* 发布于 2009-04-30 00:45 5 楼^#

<P><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">问题问答如下：</SPAN></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></P> <P><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">“难道爱一个人就必须将他（她）占为己有？”-- 对。包括肉体和精神。</SPAN></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></P> <P><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">"真爱</SPAN><FONT face="Times New Roman">=</FONT><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">无私奉献"--- 错。不是什么都可以奉献的，特别是感情。</SPAN></FONT></SPAN></P> <P><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">“或让他（她）按着你的方式“成长”？”--- 对。息息相通，步调一致。</SPAN></FONT></SPAN></P> <P><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">“默默为你爱的人做个守护神</SPAN><FONT face="Times New Roman">---</FONT><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">你就不会有痛苦的感觉”</SPAN></SPAN></FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">--- 错。没有爱才没有痛苦。</SPAN></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></P> <P><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">“那时你会觉得自己是个天使，在小心翼翼的守护你的爱。”--- 错。魔鬼永远变不了天使。</SPAN></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></P> <P><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">“也只有此时你才知道什么是刻骨铭心的爱。”-- 错！只有付出过真正的爱，才有资格谈刻骨铭心的爱。</SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></P> <P><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></SPAN> </P> <P><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">---一俗人</SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><o:p><FONT face="Times New Roman" size=3><FONT face=宋体> </FONT><BR></FONT></o:p></P></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></SPAN> <P><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><FONT size=3><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN style="FONT-FAMILY: SimSun; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN lang=ZH-CN><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></SPAN></P>

游客 IP:24.248.74.* 发布于 2009-04-29 18:15 4 楼^#

大家看了这么感人的录像，也理解了“爱”是什么，何苦还在这儿顶针相刺呢？ <br><br>珍惜大家在一起的时光吧，容忍个不完美吧。。。。。。<br><br><br>--卞人<br>

游客 IP:65.172.75.* 发布于 2009-04-29 17:45 3 楼^#

<P>我晕，一看白玫瑰的名字就肯定是40以上中年妇女，还小姐呢，可能吗？还有她写的文章孩子都托了出来了，还小姐呢，小倩写文章够雷的了。</P>

游客 IP:24.99.111.* 发布于 2009-04-29 16:46 2 楼^#

<FONT size=4>您可相信世上有鬼，也不可相信男人的嘴。</FONT>

游客 IP:74.166.109.* 发布于 2009-04-29 16:07 1 楼^#

<P><FONT color=#ff0000 size=4>Just watched the video, 太感人了。Thanks for your post.</FONT></P> <P><FONT color=#ff0000 size=4>-----梦游</FONT></P> <P><FONT size=4><FONT color=#ff0000>BTW， to：</FONT><FONT color=#ff0000>白玫瑰小姐，你可以说情，还是少谈爱吧</FONT></FONT><FONT size=3>。</FONT></P>